Monday, 19 January 2009
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Hi
hi, just read your post he doesnt /didnt deserve you
hes an ass once a cheat always a cheat i guess and he will learn this the hard way im afraid
head up girly there are a million people dying to see you fall =) x
hi
Chin Up !Â
Geez. I read that entry about that 'amazing' guy. Bah! What a horrible dude!! Seriously, you need better than that! Disgusting to the core. He didn't even have the balls to tell you straight up that he wants to break it off with you?? And on top of that, he was such a fickle-minded guy!! Eww.
Anyways, don't fret yea? There is always someone better out there. I know that myself. Hehe! You're a lovely woman and you don't wanna be pulled down by a guy who has a fickle brain and zero balls!
Loves!!
I agree... man
My boyfriend now, cheated on me about 3 months into our relationship He didnt have the balls to tell me he cheated on me but when i asked him about it he came clean. yea, it killed me. We broke up for 2 weeks until he came to me really upset... my guys big, and muscular, a hockey player, and doesnt cry or anything but he was very upset. he was unhappy and everything. Soo he spilled his heart out to me trying to make me forgive him. I believe in chances, so i forgave him and weve been together for 2 yrs now and going.
I mean, what your guy did to you is unacceptable. The cheating is too.. more than once! wish his ex that cheated on him many times. One, hes an idiot to go back with her. Two, hes an idiot cause your gorgeouss!!!! You can get whoever ya want, dont worry about them stupid idiots that have noo brain .. he'll end up alone again before he knows it.
much love,
Jess
People cheat...what we do after is the real test of our Character. I have been told, let the go...if they come back, then they loved you, but set some clear boundaries to protect yourself.
If they don't then you are better off without them.
I can share that I have been married going on our 19th year. Early in our marriage we let our childhood dysfunctions get into our marriage. Abuse, addiction and other stuff...as it is, my wife cheated on me in our first 2 years...
I was angry, bitter and even wanted to double the wrong and have my own fling...but I resisted. I am thankful to this day that I remained true to my commitment. As we grew in our marriage, we processed life baggage through counseling and support...as we did we discovered some pretty dark stuff from our childhood and we had to re-raise ourselves.
We have a healthy marriage today and I am blessed to have the confidence of looking forward to our many many remaining years.
My one recommendation to all people, as adults...is to get right with yourself. Deal with whatever negative experiences you have had, process and learn to be a healthy you...not just in the physical sense, but in the mental, spiritual and emotional. You will make a better life partner for someone if you are well with yourself.
For those who have experienced abuse, get some support to process what happened. It is NOT your fault and believe it or not, YOU are NOT alone.
Best wishes to you, my EuropeanDiva!!! You must one remarkable woman and you are a great match for that Prince Charming...just don't ignore the frogs, with a little kiss they could be the true man you are looking for.